God Broke The Mould When He Made Her (Mrs. Chandra Navaratnam)

Mrs. Chandra Navaratnam (23.11.1932 — 13.06.2020)

Our mother, Chandra Navaratnam nee Rajasingham, hailed from a lineage of Priesthood, the Reverend Sam Morse being her Great Grand Father. She was the 2nd daughter of Charles and Ranee Rajasingam, and sister of the late Ranita Thavam and the late Raju Rajasingham.  She was an old girl of CMS Ladies College, Colombo, and during the World War II years, studied at Chundikuli Girls College Jaffna, before returning to Ladies’ College to finish her secondary education.  

During the 60’s, our family moved from Colombo to Jaffna, as Dad, who was a Station Master in the Railway, was transferred to Jaffna. Five months into his new assignment, Dad died of a severe heart attack. Mother decided to stay on and raise the children in Jaffna. It was the grace of God that provided her the fortitude and the will to courageously continue to raise her children. Through the ensuing years, she was able to juggle her parental responsibilities with her teaching workload at St. Johns College, as well as giving after school lessons of piano, speech and drama.

Mother involved herself in Church activities as well, accepting the offer from the then vicar at St. John’s Church, the Rev. Raju Coomaraswamy to be the regular organist. She was already an accomplished musician attached to the Trinity College of Music Speech and Drama, London, when she started giving piano lessons at home. For some time, our living room was used as one of the examination centres for Jaffna. Her former students will also remember the annual picnics that she organized.

She so admirably handled the dual role of mother and father, a picture of health and a pillar of strength to all of us. From our younger days she instilled in our minds the importance of leading a Christian life. Her favourite quote was ‘The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom’. She was also very well versed  in child psychology.  Never raised her hand on us for any naughty or careless deeds. Instead, she would make it a point to teach us where we went wrong, to make us realize our mistakes.

She used a lot of proverbs and teachings throughout our childhood days, which really helped us siblings go through adolescence.  She ensured we were well provided in all necessities. I can still remember how meticulously she organized our meals, always making something different for dinner. April & August school holidays were spent in Colombo with our relatives. December holidays were always spent at home, as all of us siblings took part in Christmas activities.  Mother was the organist for the church as well as the school carol services, while we also sang in the choir.

Mother was a real source of knowledge on any topic under the Sun, and so much so that was known as Dr. Navaratnam in the family circle. She was so energetic and active all the time, a pillar of strength, courageous, humble, simple and fun loving too, and more than anything, she led a selfless, sacrificial life throughout. The beauty of her life was that she simply enjoyed all what she did with a cheerful heart.  

We will also remember her for her resilience and resourcefulness, and we are ever grateful to God for having blessed us with one of the ‘BEST MOTHERS IN THE WORLD’ or rather, THE BEST.

Children Rajan, Cynthia, Sharma, Chrisso and Ravi

(Sri Lanka – Canada )

Excerpts published in the Ceylon Daily News 13.06. 21

As published in Ceylon Daily News

Related Reference: Mrs. Chandra Navaratnam (1932 -2020)

2nd year Remembrance: Ernestine – Sritharan – Sabaratnam

In loving memory of my dear son S.E.Sritharan born on 13.03.1955  and entered glory 23.011.2017.

Another year comes to an end

But, still our hearts find it hard to mend,

We pray that God has given,

The crown you have truly won.

Beloved son Sri,

We offer our heartful of thanks,

for all what you have done with sincere love.

O’Lord grant him eternal rest.

Amma (Mrs. P.M Sabaratnam)

Lovingly remembered and sadly missed by your ever loving wife, children, mother, siblings, in-laws, nephews and nieces.

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“As a mother comforts her child, so will I comfort you; and you will be comforted”

-Isaiah 66:13 –

 

An excerpt was published on the Ceylon daily news dated 23.11.19.

‘In sweet Remembrance’ Ernestine – Sritharan – Sabaratnam

‘In sweet Remembrance’

First year death Anniversary

Ernestine Sritharan Sabaratnam

13.03.1955  –  23.11.2018

The loss is great, your memory a treasure,

Your life was full of love and labour,

Your love for your family true and you sacrificed your best in silence.

We will remember and cherish,

Our lips cannot speak of how much our hearts moan for you

Only God knows how we miss you – 

As a loving son, brother, husband, father, uncle and  in-law .

For all of us the loss is so great,  has left a deep void for those who are left behind

The impact is truly their devastating journey of grief.

Your life was a blessing; you are loved beyond words and missed beyond measure.

All in all we breathe relief as Sri is safe in the arms of Jesus

Never is this remembrance more needed than, when heart-aches of  life crowd in on us.

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Grieving mother and family members

Mrs. P.M. Sabaratnam

56 A, Nelumpura, Ratmalana, Sri Lanka

23 November 2018

ERNESTINE SRITHARAN SABARATNAM (Birthday Memorium)

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        ERNESTINE SRITHARAN SABARATNAM (SRI)                             ஏனஸ்டீன் சிறீதரன் சபாரத்தினம்                         
Born: 13 March 1955 –  Entered Glory: 23 November 2017

Thinking of you on your birthday,
With sadness in our hearts,
For a very special someone,
From whom we had to part.

Of all the many blessings,
However great or small,
To have had you for a husband,

Father, son and brother,
Was the greatest one of all,
The family chain is broken now,
And nothing seems the same
But as God takes us one by one
The chain will link again.

Affectionately remembered by Sritharan and Sabaratnam family
United Kingdom- Sri Lanka- Australia  – Germany
13th March 2018

 

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