Lily Pavalamalar Maurice

Retired teacher of Sri Lanka and Alumna of Udupiddy American Mission College, Jaffna, entered her eternal home in Toronto, Canada on October 18, 2023.

Loving daughter of late Mudaliyar Murugesu Chellappah and late Victoria Arulammah of Karaveddy.

Beloved wife of late KNY Maurice, cherished mother of Premini Kabilamany (USA), Nilanthy Gnanasekaram (Canada) and loving mother-in-law of Caleb Kabilamany and Ivon Gnanasekaram.

Adored grandmother of Sangeetha & Timothy Gnaneswaran, Sinthu, Nathan and Joel, doting great-grandmother of Judah, Lucas and Norah.

Affectionate sister of Vethanayagam, Jeevamalar Mathipalasingam, Gnanamalar Chelliah, Arulnayagam and Yogamalar (all deceased), 

Pavalam, as an English trained teacher, taught at Al-Hidaya Maha Vidyalaya in Colombo for 19 years and later at St. Charles Maha Vidyalayam in Jaffna.

Visitation and Service details: (All Canadian times)

Viewing:

Friday, October 20, 2023 6 – 9pm

Grace New Covenant Pentecostal Church, 1800 Ellesmere Rd, Scarborough, ON M1H 2V5

Visitation and Thanksgiving Service:

Celebration of her life is scheduled on Saturday, October 21, 2023 at 10am – 12noon.

Grace New Covenant Pentecostal Church, 1800 Ellesmere Rd, Scarborough, ON M1H 2V5

Burial Service

Saturday, October 21st 2023 at 12:30 – 2:00 pm

Zoom details for Burial Service Only
https://us02web.zoom.us/j/82335216787?pwd=cXZVNzJjNmRkV1pkdm9lYWw4bHZIQT09

Meeting ID: 823 3521 6787
Passcode: 212965

Funeral Directors:

Chapel Ridge Funeral Home, 8911 Woodbine Ave , Markham ONT

Contact

Nilanthy (daughter) 416-985-2317 / Ivon (son-in-law) 416-420-2317

Eulogy of Mrs. Lily Pavalamalar Maurice

April 11, 1934 – October 18, 2023

With heavy hearts and tearful eyes, we gather here today to bid farewell to an incredible woman, Mrs. Lily Pavalamalar Maurice. Lily, also fondly known as Aasai Amma or Pavalam Mami, was a beacon of love, compassion, and strength who touched the lives of all who knew her. She will be deeply missed and forever cherished in our hearts.

Lily’s journey began in Paruthithurai, Sri Lanka, where she was born to Muthaliar Murugesu Stephen Chellappah and Victoria Arulamma Kanapathipillai. Growing up in a family of six children, Lily learned the importance of love, unity, and resilience from an early age. Despite enduring the loss of her parents at a young age, Lily’s unwavering spirit continued to shine through, becoming a pillar of support for her siblings.

Education played a significant role in Lily’s life, as she embarked on a path to become a teacher. Udupiddy American Mission College was the foundation of her academic journey, where she excelled under the guidance of her beloved mentor, Ms. Lee. Lily’s passion for education led her to become a teacher at the young age of 18, and she later pursued further studies at Teacher’s Training College in Nallur, Jaffna.

In 1963, Lily married the late Kanapathipillai Nalliah Yogasingham Maurice, and together they built a beautiful life centered around love, faith, and family. Lily and Maurice were blessed with two wonderful daughters, Premini and Nilanthy, who became the epitome of the values Lily held dear. As a caring and devoted mother, Lily instilled in her daughters the importance of kindness, compassion, and the unwavering belief in the power of faith.

Lily’s dedication to education continued throughout her life, as she guided students at Al-Hidaya Maha Vidyalaya in Colombo for 19 years and later at St. Charles Maha Vidyalayam in Jaffna. Her impact on the lives of her students was immeasurable, as she not only imparted knowledge but inspired them to reach for their dreams.

In 1995, Lily and Maurice made the life-changing decision to immigrate to Canada, joining their younger daughter, Nilanthy, and son-in-law, Ivon. Lily’s nurturing nature extended beyond her immediate family, as she lovingly shared her wisdom with her grandsons, Nathan and Joel. Her patient guidance and unconditional love were instrumental in shaping their lives.

Throughout her journey, Lily faced numerous challenges, including a battle with breast cancer. With her unwavering faith and the support of her family, Lily emerged victorious against this formidable foe. Her strength, resilience, and unwavering positivity during this time were an inspiration to all who knew her.

Lily’s love knew no bounds, extending to her extended family and friends. She was a loving aunt, grandmother, and great-grandmother, always available to lend an ear, offer advice, and shower her loved ones with affection. Lily’s presence brought warmth, joy, and a sense of belonging to all lucky enough to know her.

On October 18, 2023, Lily peacefully passed away surrounded by her family and ministers, entering the eternal embrace of our Lord Jesus. Her legacy of love, faith, and selflessness lives on in the hearts of her daughters, Premini and Nilanthy, her sons-in-law, Kabilamany and Ivon, her grandchildren, Sangeetha, Sinthu, Nathan, and Joel, and her great-grandchildren, Judah, Lucas, and Norah.

As we bid farewell to Lily today, let us remember the beautiful soul she was. Let us honor her memory by living each day with the same love, compassion, and strength that she embodied. Though she may no longer be physically present, her spirit will forever guide and protect us.

Rest in peace, dear Lily Pavalamalar Maurice. You will forever be cherished and dearly missed.

(Compiled by Suganya, Meera, Sinthu, and Nilanthy)

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